Life

Life is a process . We are born and learn as we grow into an adult. The learning doesn’t stop there . It’s a life long journey . So many people get stuck at some point. It has to do with the situation or environment we live in. We learn certain concepts and behaviors that we identify aspects of our life we just acknowledge as facts. They may not be facts but they are familiar and we see them associated them to be true.

As we grow up we see our parents and extended family and incorporate them into our understanding and our concepts. These concepts may be s skewed. We were taught to believe things and we learned our ways from our parents. How we eat , what we eat. And Our family tradition s and beliefs. But as an adult we come to the realization that not everything we were taught was right.

We can learn once we leave the nest. Our eyes open up to different realities. We gain insight into our surroundings that are different. Hopefully you will gained understanding and incorporate this knowledge into your life. Neighborhoods and communities all play a role. So learning to leave and experience new places and things we gather a better understanding of the world.

This means we meet new people and get to see things and cultures and different beliefs behaviors and our own beliefs will become evolved and our learning will be evolving.

Then we have the experience of growing and learning that we age. Every age has a new story and a new meaning. Time shapes us and our life experiences changes us. Sometimes it’s a good thing and others time it may be a bad thing. But know the choices aren’t always yours. Destiny has a part of life that we can’t control. We deliberately choose to sabotage our lives or we can choose to change it a bit.

We are a product of our universe unique to our own world. Every one has a story .

Sometimes we have to learn from our failures and mistakes. This in time will make us better and stronger for our future. Everyone around you won’t experience or understand your life the exact way you see it. We need to learn how to become an observer from stepping out of the box of you. This how we can actually see what is going on . The truth and the knowing we can uncover by stepping away a looking at our situation from afar. This creates a better understanding so we can grow. Leaving the blame game and the circumstances at bay.

Life has a way of humbling us in ways we don’t understand or appreciate. Death , divorce and time all has a way to teach us even if we don’t want to learn. Understand some of us are forced into situations and experiences and we have to learn things that are hard. Life isn’t easy even if you have all the money in the world. Hurts and harm happens to everyone at some stage in life. A stupid decision can change your life and you could lose it all. A fatal accident can impact us and others. Other people can change our course just by being near us. Example being in the wrong place at the wrong time.

Attraction has a lot to do with this and so does a limited belief system. Negative emotions bring about negative situations. Being positive change this even in bad circumstances. We need to look at things and find the good in the situation even if it’s very bad. It can always be worse so think of positive things. The worse thing is death. So if you are not dead you still have a chance to recover from it.

An understanding of life can create a new sense of understanding. If we interpret the laws of Karma we can then understand how life works whether or not we believe in God or not. We need to see the laws of nature. The world has a certain kind of structure that’s what makes it so hard for us to understand. Unfortunately not everyone understands these concepts. The world has poles the north and the South Pole. These have an enormous effect on in our life . Energy and force and the earths wellbeing is all influenced by our polarization and how attraction and repelling can affect us. That’s Karma in a nut shell. It’s a real thing.

For example if we are going through a hard time we attract others who are having a hard time. If we experience positive things we attract positive people. Under for this to really work in our lives we need to separate ourselves from negativity and people who don’t necessarily make you feel good about yourself. Sometime we need to just be alone. Being alone isn’t a bad thing. It’s time of rest. Resting from all the bull shit and the people who try to convince you or sway you into doing something you don’t plan to do or even want to do.

In order to really be who you are meant to be we need to be alone and quiet. Away from influences even television can have an impact on our understanding.

As we age we have become to increasingly dependent on our own knowledge and experience. This creates a small circle of friends and family.

Sometimes people at our employment Juan also impact our feelings.

Staying:

Cordial and Keeping conversation about work and not incorporating our personal business and experiences.

We don’t need other peoples opinions and interpretations and influences . We are adults and we know the true underlying causes and consequences for our own lives. No one needs to know your personal business.

If we work in a hostile environment we should look for a new job. Work should be a time to be involved and to have a time to focus on working while not thinking about our own lives. It a break from our place of life. Which maybe good thing. We won’t dwell on what’s going on or who died or those sad experiences that we can hold on to. It’s a time to be separated from our world and just work.

At the end of our years we all seem to be alone . This is a time of reflection and a time to learn about the choices we made. Getting older should be a time to gain understanding and ask for forgiveness for the past. Learning is never ending. Even at the time of death we still are learning. Maybe even after our death we are still learning. Then we can be silenced and not interfere on the world that was created by your influence. We can see how our lives shaped others lives . And then see our mistakes . Maybe if we get a chance we can live again to correct ourselves and further learn the real meaning of life.

So basically in summary we should learn to separate ourselves from our environment so we can attract the influencers we need and not the ones we don’t want. Time spent alone is a time of reflection and self learning. Take the time to learn about yourself is key to becoming a more successful person and a better version of yourself.

Understanding your life is necessary for the development of your peace of mind.

The limitations and the choices and influences and the knowledge that was learned brings an understanding that only you can interpret and this is for your benefit and not others. Learn about yourself life is for your growth and we are born into this world to learn and understand. The world is a place of choices and experiences that are not necessarily good but everything is a choice and people don’t make the right choices and that’s why we have conflict and trials. So take a deep breath and get a note book and take some note and jot down everything from the time of birth to your time now and you will be able to see those things that you don’t before and you will learn how situations influence and interacted on your life. It’s worth the time to be intentional and evaluate yourself by yourself with nothing and no one to comment about it.

Then you can reflect and learn how to change your life or just basically understand why and how you got to where you are now. That’s called learning!

Just remember that we are our worst critic and we need to just let go and understand that life happens and we need to forgive ourselves for the lack of knowledge or the inability of action that wasn’t taken. Loving yourself is stepping back and letting it go . Make new choices and know that as long as you are alive you can bring about a new positive attitude towards your future.